Relationships
(Author- Wayne W Dyer) – Author of Your Erroneous Zones
You are not your relationships. Certainly the love energy between you and all of those in your immediate circle is very significant, but it is not who you are. You are an individual soul that is connected to the whole, but you are not the relationship to that whole. Your identification with your relationship provides you with great frustration because every time that is a glitch in it, as there always will be, you find yourself feeling worthless. Remember you are eternal, that which is changeless. You are in a great number of relationships, all of which have validity, but they come and go just like your life here in form comes from no-where and goes to now-here and then back to no-where. It is a relationship of coming and going, and thus it changes. Dropping your personal history means dropping the belief that a failed relationship makes you a failure. There are no failed relationships. Every person who enters and exits your life does so in a mutual sharing of life’s divine lessons. Some have longer roles to play than others, but ultimately, you will return to your relationship to the absolute. You do not have to judge yourself in negative ways because of the nature of your relationships. You can learn from them all, knowing from your observer’s position that your are the one observing it all.
