a happy heart is more important that a truckload of money.

it up to individual how he prioritize money related decisions.

for some relationships like family money comes secondary. and actually people wants more money so they can provide security to their family. if we ask pepole why they want or are obssessed with money? one of the reason they might give is that coz they want happiness for their family. again if you ask again to them why they want happiness for family; the reason would be coz they want to feel happy. the end result is to seek happiness. so why cant one be happy and money would follow them.

what happens normally is people go after money like a rat race. for approval of others, society judgements and to seek love of family and friends. instead they could learn the art of happiness when having money or not is not a crucial factor. and thereby they attract true relationship.

the human search for fulfillment and happiness is evident since ages. in the quest of satisfaction we tend to compromise on the impulses of the hearts. the illusion of the permanence of things and personalities takes us in defensive mode against the life unfolding. forgotten are the quest for the hearing of and acting on the heart impulses. the safest argument for the living for the future, comes from the understanding that everybody is doing it. and it is considered sane. this fear based ideology hinder the living through heart impulses.

living in the moment is considered insanity. children are taught in hostile environment where competition and ambition are given priority.  few are the people who take risk to follow the heart and tell the dysfunctional mind to shut up even being afraid of the consequences. they listen to their heart and respect their desires and they learn to love their own self. they accept their own behavior without judging its as good or bad.  they hear the voice of their conscience in the midst of noise of different cultural conditioning.  they might be called mad people in their own society or place due to keep their action away for logic and principals. . the loving accepting and easy going individuals follow their own understanding about life and make decision through heart. they have opinions though they come to understand that their opinion is just a opinion not the truth. they are ready to fail, because they can not resist the heart desire. and with the trials of following the conscious path they come to the understanding of awareness of  present moment where the source of the beautiful existence resides. the ego take a hit and love start following. the life follows over life situations.

acceptance comes of what ever happens rather than resisting of happenings.   the burden of heavy past is diminished and the aliveness of present moment awareness enters. though the question is how many individuals follow their hearts or would you take the risk of your own ego’s death to come into the ocean of awareness.

and makes ys feel abundant and successful! Loving what you have is rare skill of blissfull living.. things happen as they should. appreciating our chance to stay on earth and connecting with nature and relazing the oneness is not a trivial thing to do. when you appreciate the beauty of nature and share your movments with it, giving your attention of present movment awareness, it reflects a joy within you; the joy of being. and your outer world also becomes successful. because when nature showers abundance you are out of place to keep what is given!

Rajiv Choudhary

The past had shrived and buried deep, all yesterdays; ther let them sleep!

sunrise

Concern yourself with but today, woo it, and teach it to obey your will and wish.  Since Time Began today has been the friend of man;

But in his blindness and his sorrow, he looks to yesterday and tommorrow. You and today! a Soul sublime, and the great pregnant hour of time, with God himself to bind the twain!

Go forth i say, Attain, attain!

with God himself to bind the twain!

- ELLA WHEELER WILCOX

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 Women as inferior is not an idea that supports female self-esteem.

men are judged, and are encouraged to judge themselves, by how well they can financially take care of others. Men are socialized to be “servants” fully as much as women; only the forms of culturally encouraged servitude are different. if a man cannot support a woman, he tends to lose stature in her eyes and in his own. it would take unusual independence and self-esteem to challenge this culturally induced attitude and to ask “why is this the gauge of my value as a man?”

throught human history, most societies and cultures have been dominated by the tribal mentality. the essence of the tribal mentality is that is makes as such the supreme good and denigrates the importance of the individual. In such a society the individual is socialized to hold him or herself in low self-esteem relative to the group. Pride tend to be labeled as vice. Self-sacrificed is enjoined. passionate individual attachment are seen as threatening to tribal values and tribal authority. ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………(indeed a great book for people who are not holding only their opinions and religions as truth. and who want to be selfish and want to develop their self-esteem.)