I have Learnt that

I’ve learned….

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     That the best classroom in the world is at the
feet of an elderly person.

 

 

I’ve learned….
That when you’re in love, it shows.

I’ve learned….
That just one person saying to me, “You’ve made
my day!” makes my day.

I’ve learned….
That having a child fall asleep in your arms is
one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

I’ve learned….
That being kind is more important than being
right.

I’ve learned….
That you should never say no to a gift from a
child.

I’ve learned….
That I can always pray for someone when I don’t
have the strength to help him in some other way.

I’ve learned….
That no matter how serious your life requires
you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

I’ve learned….

 That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I’ve learned….
That simple walks with my father around the
block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an
adult.

I’ve learned….
That life is like a roll of
toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

I’ve learned….
That we should be glad God doesn’t give us
everything we ask for.

I’ve learned….
That money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve learned….
That it’s those small daily happenings that make
life so spectacular.

I’ve learned…
That under everyone’s hard shell
is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

I’ve learned….
That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What
makes me think I can?

I’ve learned….
That to ignore the facts does not change the
facts.

I’ve learned….
That when you plan to get even with someone, you
are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

I’ve learned….
That love, not time, heals all wounds.

I’ve learned….
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person
is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I’ve learned….
That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted
with a smile.

I’ve learned….
That there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with
your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.

I’ve learned….
That no one is perfect until you fall in love
with them.

I’ve learned….
That life is tough, but I’m tougher.

I’ve learned….
That opportunities are never lost; someone will
take the ones you miss.

I’ve learned….
That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will
dock elsewhere.

I’ve learned….
That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love
him one more time before he passed away.

I’ve learned….
That one should keep his words both soft and
tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I’ve learned….

That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

I’ve learned….
That I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose
what I do about it.

I’ve learned….
That when your newly born grandchild holds your
little finger in his little fist, that you’re hooked for life.

I’ve learned….
That everyone wants to live on top of the
mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs
while you’re climbing it.

I’ve learned …
That it is best to give advice in only two
circumstances; when it is requested and when
it is a life threatening situation.

I’ve learned….
That the less time I have to work with, the more
things I get done.

To all of you…. Make sure you read all the way
down to the last sentence.

(WORDS BY ANDY ROONEY)

Reverse Paranoid

Dreams

Sitting in the office, pondering about the thing called success or manifesting a desired outcome; I hereby want to state my opinion on the said subject.
We have heard people saying that handwork is a key to success. It is true that hard work, dedication, and focused approach are important to achieve desired results. but this is not the foremost important things.

First thing that is important for success is desire or I like to say it simply “dreams”.
Do you and I dreams big enough to push ourselves towards achieving them?

To Dream of astounding success is first necessity for personality development.
So why do not people dream enough?
One reason can be stated as lack of self esteem. The cultural programming has big effect on every individual and their performance in daily life.  So I would like to develop my own positive affirmation with immense feeling of self acceptance and love inside out.
It is hard sometimes to think of self love when things are going pretty tough and the people surrounding us are having negative outlook on us. So what made some individual to practice the self love/acceptance?
Where does the desire born from?
In my opinion it’s a soul nature thereby not many people like to learn the laws of self love/acceptance.
Once the decision is made to seek out and learn the laws of self acceptance, the person follows an arduous path that makes him successful and achiever.
So again the people who achieve most are definitely the dreamers not really the hardworking people.
When Dr Kalam says dream, dream, dream; think, think, think and put that thought into action, act, act, and act.
The action is not only physical; it has a metal aspect also. How many thought we think, what kind of thoughts we think, how many decision we make? So and so.
Practice makes a man perfect.

Other than dreaming, the foremost important thing is visualization/ imagination for desired outcomes.

As per Rev. Scientist Albert Einstein,

“Imagination is more powerful than knowledge”

therefore I must imagine my desired outcome often, that the task I take everyday.
I must imagine the body I want to have.
I must imagine the lifestyle I want to have.
I must imagine the confidence I want to have.
I must imagine the love I want to have.
I must imagine the loveable person I want to become.
I must imagine myself as super achieved and happy go lucky man.
I must imagine associating with highly successful people and be one of them.
I must imagine myself as Richey rich and prosperous.
I must imagine myself contribution my ideas with other people.
I must make my focus on imagination that I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me.

As per Motivational speaker and my role model Anthony Robbins

“If you can’t, you must; when you must, you can”

I want to thank you whoever reads this article.

God bless you all and lots of love from me.

Raj

Forgive

Forgive
“That slight misdeed of yesterday,
why should it mar today?
The thing he said, the thing you did,
have long since passed away;
For yesterday was but a trial;
today you will succeed,
And from mistakes of yesterday
will come some noble deed.
Forgive yourself for thoughtlessness,
do not condemn the past;
For it is gone with its mistakes;
their mem’ry cannot last;
Forget the failures and misdeed,
from such experience rise,
Why should you let your head be bowed?
Lift up your heart and eyes!”

thoughts are things

I hold it true that thoughts are things;
They’re endowed with bodies
and breath and wings:
And that we send them forth to fill
The world with good results, or ill.
That which we call our secret thought
Speeds forth to earth’s remotest spot,
Leaving its blessings or its woes
Like tracks behind it as it goes.
We build our future, thought by thought,
For good or ill, yet know it not.
Yet so the universe was wrought.
Thought is another name for fate;
Choose then thy destiny and wait,
For love brings love and hate brings hate.
Henry Van Dyke

Forgivness

1. today i listen to my feeling and i am gentle with myself. i know that all my feeling are my friends.
2. i am ready to be healed. i am willing to forgive. all is well.
3. i am forgiving loving gentle and kind and i know that life loves me.
4. all of the changes in life that lie before me are positive one. i am safe.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Courtesy:
1. heal your life by louise l hay.
2. i can do it by louise l hay. with listning cd.

thank you life.

“there are no victims. things happen as they shold. random events are guided by a higher wisdom. chaos is an illusion. there is total order in all the events. nothing happens without a reason.”
BY Dr Deepak Chopra ,in his book Life After Death.

Happiness is the way

in my opinion Happiness is a cause not an effect. the illustration that comes from the book named City Dharma is quite correct. the same illustration comes from the book named power of now. the same illustration can be sited that you need not seek the happiness, you can be happy right now. seeking comes into future, if we see the power of now. we realise that we have contradction within ourself. there is ego/past within us that seeks its survival in past and future. we become lost in thoughts and believe our stories to be true. we make any identity of ourselves by what happened in past, negative or positive. by doing this we do not respect the love of nature around us. we do not realise the beauty of nature embeeded in plants, trees, sky, animals. and we see other human beings who are also lost in mind. so we try to figure out whose pain is more – mine or theirs? we ask for happiness outside, in our position, bank balances, looks, opinions. and we get frustrated many times by indulging in self seeking behaviors. first thing to accpet the pain as part of you. accpet what is happiness or unhappiness. accpetance and surreder to life crate miracles.

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“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

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1.   Money is an idea. More money doesn’t guarantee success.

2.   Wealth is not the currency. Money represents the technical know how, reputation in the market,   positive habits, strong motivation, life enhancing habits etc.

3.    Positive thoughts are important, more so positive incantation are important, more so association with people of positive mind set is important for success.

4.      However intimate the relationship you have developed, it can’t create or break you; you mind set, principals and habits break or make you.

5.      Happiness is an Art. “JIM ROAN – Motivational Speaker”

6.      Disassociate with negative minded people; they sow weeds that destroy the beautiful garden of your brain chemistry; though however important or intimate people they are in your life.

7.      Limited association with the people of wrong traits and destroying habits, however important they are in you daily lives.

8.      Expanded association with positive mindset people and with positive traits and look and search for them.

9.      Destroy the guilt with positive incantation.

10.   It’s great that someone left me; I can make room for someone else.

11.   The relationship is wrong that drains your energy; however intimate it is.

12.     Meditation, exercise, reading books gives you greater benefit in long run though it might not look comfortable initially.

13.   Model the successful people and you will become the one. Model their internal patterns and physiology.

14.   Successful Physiology guides you to the success.

15.    Action is important not the knowledge.

16.    Pain and pleasure principal can be used to change the internal patterns that guides us for certain action and behaviour.

17.    People are not wrong, it’s their behavioural traits.

18.    Respond intelligently even to an unintelligent treatment.

19.    You are not right always.

20.   Take the criticism positively.

21.   Show the friendly attitude rather than criticising.

22.    Avoid needless worry over trifling matters.

23.    Do not talk when you are listening.

24.    Keep your words soft and arguments hard.

25.    Remember the power of prayer.

26.    Be the most honest person you know.

27.    We don’t laugh because we are happy, we are happy because we laugh.

28.    Sleep less, spend less.          

29.    Read a book of your choice.

30.   Express emotions.

31.  Give time to yourself.

32.  Lower down the volume of unhelpful taking inside mind and see the pictures fade away of unhelpful imagination.

33. increase the volume of positive self talk, saying “I am genius.” Inside you mind and make motion picture of the confident you.

34.  Take 100% responsibility of your present.

35. Do little things of kindness.

36.  Feel good.

37. Have gratitude mindset for the life your are living.

38.  Avoid instant gratification.

39.  Be selfish for your improvement.

40. Dream big.