desire
August 24, 2009
June 18, 2009
Dreams
Sitting in the office, pondering about the thing called success or manifesting a desired outcome; I hereby want to state my opinion on the said subject.
We have heard people saying that handwork is a key to success. It is true that hard work, dedication, and focused approach are important to achieve desired results. but this is not the foremost important things.
First thing that is important for success is desire or I like to say it simply “dreams”.
Do you and I dreams big enough to push ourselves towards achieving them?
To Dream of astounding success is first necessity for personality development.
So why do not people dream enough?
One reason can be stated as lack of self esteem. The cultural programming has big effect on every individual and their performance in daily life. So I would like to develop my own positive affirmation with immense feeling of self acceptance and love inside out.
It is hard sometimes to think of self love when things are going pretty tough and the people surrounding us are having negative outlook on us. So what made some individual to practice the self love/acceptance?
Where does the desire born from?
In my opinion it’s a soul nature thereby not many people like to learn the laws of self love/acceptance.
Once the decision is made to seek out and learn the laws of self acceptance, the person follows an arduous path that makes him successful and achiever.
So again the people who achieve most are definitely the dreamers not really the hardworking people.
When Dr Kalam says dream, dream, dream; think, think, think and put that thought into action, act, act, and act.
The action is not only physical; it has a metal aspect also. How many thought we think, what kind of thoughts we think, how many decision we make? So and so.
Practice makes a man perfect.
Other than dreaming, the foremost important thing is visualization/ imagination for desired outcomes.
As per Rev. Scientist Albert Einstein,
“Imagination is more powerful than knowledge”
therefore I must imagine my desired outcome often, that the task I take everyday.
I must imagine the body I want to have.
I must imagine the lifestyle I want to have.
I must imagine the confidence I want to have.
I must imagine the love I want to have.
I must imagine the loveable person I want to become.
I must imagine myself as super achieved and happy go lucky man.
I must imagine associating with highly successful people and be one of them.
I must imagine myself as Richey rich and prosperous.
I must imagine myself contribution my ideas with other people.
I must make my focus on imagination that I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me.
As per Motivational speaker and my role model Anthony Robbins
“If you can’t, you must; when you must, you can”
I want to thank you whoever reads this article.
God bless you all and lots of love from me.
Raj
May 8, 2009
Be Yourself
the idea of being myself exites me. we live in socitey which have different norms and conditions. our family puts various demands on us and regualtions on our behaviour.
to be accepted in society we are required to please the people by our acts. this takes us toward the approval seeking behavior. sometimes our values are different from our parents and society.
first there must be value clarification within us.
what are my primary values? (Honesty, loving the self, being open hearted)
how do i define success? ( Financial Freedom, High Productivity, Ample time to do things i love)
what are my role models? ( Anthony Robbins, Jack canfield, Shiv Khera, Anil Ambani)
what are my dreams/goals? (being a Millionaire, Red Ferrari, Mansion, Travel First Class)
what am i prepared to do for my dreams (to help people to realize that happines is acted out not be looked out; to make genuine friends and understand their point of views, to network with open minded people, to show the honesty in dealing, to take the opprtunities on hand, to write a book, to devlop more success habits, to be personal devlopment coach…)
God Bless,
May 3, 2009
Forgive
Forgive
“That slight misdeed of yesterday,
why should it mar today?
The thing he said, the thing you did,
have long since passed away;
For yesterday was but a trial;
today you will succeed,
And from mistakes of yesterday
will come some noble deed.
Forgive yourself for thoughtlessness,
do not condemn the past;
For it is gone with its mistakes;
their mem’ry cannot last;
Forget the failures and misdeed,
from such experience rise,
Why should you let your head be bowed?
Lift up your heart and eyes!”
thoughts are things
I hold it true that thoughts are things;
They’re endowed with bodies
and breath and wings:
And that we send them forth to fill
The world with good results, or ill.
That which we call our secret thought
Speeds forth to earth’s remotest spot,
Leaving its blessings or its woes
Like tracks behind it as it goes.
We build our future, thought by thought,
For good or ill, yet know it not.
Yet so the universe was wrought.
Thought is another name for fate;
Choose then thy destiny and wait,
For love brings love and hate brings hate.
Henry Van Dyke
October 16, 2008
Dealing with depression – happy way.
(Courtesy – Book Unlimited Power written by Anthony Robbins)
No one is always depressed. Depression isn’t a permanent condition like losing a leg. It’s a state that people can pop into and out of it. In fact, most people who are experiencing depression have had many happy experiences in their lives – maybe even as many or more than the average person. They just do not represent their experiences to themselves in a bright, large, associated way. Some people visualize happy movement as far away and with faded light so they do not give them happy feelings. Whether some people visualize the opposite. They find it easier to see happy movements is brighter light with full strength and so close to them that the felling of happiness makes them feel good in most of the life situations. There are tools and some people know it unknowingly. Others can learn the modeling the behavior of the happy people. How to do that? Anthony Robbins famous motivational speaker and author has written in his book Unlimited Power about two ways to change the state of a person. One is to change the physiology and other is to change the mental presentations.
There are some ways to keep your body movements and position to get the happy and confident feeling. for example if a person is standing upright and tall and head straight looking, at this stage it would be impossible for him to think a negative thought or feel depressed. And even when you see a depressed person you can see how he make body movements, he would be leaning down and head down toward the floor.
Haven’t we heard someone say,” I just want to get some distance from my problems.” you don’t have to fly to some distant land to do this. Just push them far away from you in your mind and notice the difference. People who filled depressed often have their brains filled to capacity with big, loud, close, heavy, insistent images of the bad times and only thin, gray wafers of the good times. Next, link what used to make you feel bad to new representations that make you feel like taking the challenges of life with vigor, humor, patience and strength.
Some people say “wait a second; you can’t change things so quickly.”Why Not”, it’s often much easier to grasp something in a flash than over a long period of time. That’s how the brain learns.
If you do something, if you make a change in o=your mind right now, if you change your state and your behavior you can show yourself in the most dramatic way what’s possible. That’s a mote potent jolt that month of anguished thought. Quantum physics tells us that things do not change slowly over time – they make quantum leaps. We hump from one level of experience to another. If you don’t like how you feel, change what you represent to yourself. It’s that simple.
It’s critical that we look at any pattern of communication and ask over selves regularly, “if I continue to represent things to myself this way, what would likely to be final results of my life? What direction is my present behavior taking me, and is that where I want to go? now is the time to examine what my mental and physical are creating, you don’t want to find out later that something you could simply and easily have changed led you down a path to a place you don’t want to be.
October 15, 2008
I Promise
I am so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind. I Talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person I meet. I Make all my friends feel there is something special in them. I Look at the sunny side of everything. I Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best. I am as enthusiastic about the success of others as I am about my own. I Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. I Give everyone a smile. I Spend so much time improving myself that I have no time left to criticize others. I am too big for worry and too noble for anger, too strong for fear; and too happy to permit the presence of trouble. i think well of myself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not is loud words but in great deeds. i live in the faith that the whole world is on my side so long as i am true to the best that is in me.
self affirmation edited from the quote of Christian D Larson – Author of Your Forces and How to Use them.
October 4, 2008
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October 2, 2008
Sun
The sun is always shinning. Even though clouds may come along and obscure the sun for a while, the sun is always shining. The sun never stops shining. And even though the earth turns, and the sun appears to go down, it really never stops shining.
