money is a means to an end and also a by product.
a happy heart is more important that a truckload of money.
it up to individual how he prioritize money related decisions.
for some relationships like family money comes secondary. and actually people wants more money so they can provide security to their family. if we ask pepole why they want or are obssessed with money? one of the reason they might give is that coz they want happiness for their family. again if you ask again to them why they want happiness for family; the reason would be coz they want to feel happy. the end result is to seek happiness. so why cant one be happy and money would follow them.
what happens normally is people go after money like a rat race. for approval of others, society judgements and to seek love of family and friends. instead they could learn the art of happiness when having money or not is not a crucial factor. and thereby they attract true relationship.